I + you, but I ≠ you

Author: Nikolai Naryzhny
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Publish Date: 2004-03-01
Features: This book will help you successfully interact with your children, parents, spouse, partners, acquaintances, or anyone you want to know—let's just say, it helps you connect with the people around you. The complexity lies in the diversity of people. Those who want to use the principle of "putting oneself in another's shoes" often encounter continuous setbacks in real life, as no one can truly place themselves in "another's position." Although civilized methods can help you find common ground with anyone, you can never truly "measure others with your own heart." Dreams are reflections of one's innermost privacy. If you want to make your life better, start by changing yourself. Only those with hidden agendas try to defend themselves. Healthy dreams can prolong your life, and the bed is the best tool for deepening mutual understanding. The slogan of psychiatrists: "Long live mental health!" Have your own fantasies, but don't get too attached to them. There is no perfect husband, only an experienced husband. Some people get married because they fear loneliness, while others remain unmarried because they fear being shackled. Pretending not to understand women makes everything much easier. Compliments should be like money—always good in excess. Coldness is more frightening than betrayal. The less you understand a woman, the more interested you become in her.