Patient's question:
Why do frequent material rewards for children? We often give material rewards to babies when they behave well or achieve some kind of honor, but recently we've found that material incentives are no longer effective. Why do parents, when giving material rewards for things that children are originally very interested in, cause their interest to weaken or even disappear?Doctor's answer:
Frequently rewarding children with material incentives can actually weaken their interest in doing things. This statement is not entirely accurate. Regular material incentives acknowledge the child's efforts and can stimulate their interest in working, teaching them that only what is earned through labor can be enjoyed with peace of mind. However, it is also important not to overdo material rewards. They should also understand that practicing Lei Feng's spirit, helping others, and being selfless is equally glorious. In this way, both material and spiritual rewards are provided, which can truly benefit the child. The above suggestions are in response to the question, "Why does frequent material reward for children weaken their interest in doing things?" I hope it helps you. Wishing you good health!