Patient's question:
Tonight on the way home from riding in the car, the child asked to watch Spider-Man. The mother said it was okay to watch for ten minutes. The child said he wanted to watch for fourteen minutes. The mother suggested, "Let's count from one to twenty, then count down from twenty to one, and then we'll watch for fourteen minutes."Later, the child disagreed, and slowly started crying. He said, "Mom doesn't love me, Mom hits me every day, Dad doesn't love me, Grandma and Grandpa don't love me, I don't want to live with others."
Hearing this, the mother felt extremely heartbroken! She never expected that she was seen this way in her child's heart. What should she do?
Doctor's answer:
According to your description, the child is being taken care of by the elders. This is the most heart-wrenching part for a child; he needs the love and companionship of his parents. Please overcome the difficulties and spend more time with the child during the age when he most needs companionship to compensate for the emptiness in his heart. In addition to communicating more with the child and listening to his true thoughts, do not hit the child. Give him a complete childhood. Pay more attention to the older child in this situation. As time passes, things may return to normal. Also, do not hit the child frequently.