Patient's question:
Okay, here is the translation following your instructions:It's been a month since the transfer, and at first the child didn't want to go, then they just wouldn't go, and now they're just staying at home. They say they're fine with anything as long as it's not about school, but when school is mentioned, they don't answer or they cry. I'd like to ask, what is going on?
Doctor's answer:
Actually, there are reasons why children dislike going to school. It might be that the child hasn't told you, or if they did, you didn't take it seriously. The reasons can include fear of school, poor relationships with teachers or peers, or dislike for certain teachers. There may also be academic struggles where the child feels they can never catch up. When children talk about these issues, we should persuade or help them find solutions, guiding them on how to proceed to ensure they study hard at school. As family members, it's important to think from the child's perspective and find solutions without blaming them, which could lower their interest in learning. Additionally, it's crucial to help the child recognize the importance of learning. It serves as an internal motivation that directly drives students to learn and is a key supportive condition for learning activities to proceed smoothly.