Patient's question:
I am 20 years old this year. Due to training, I have met a man who is 20 years older than me. I feel that he is very steady and mature, which is the type I dislike, and he also dislikes me. However, I know that he is married with children, and their relationship has always been bad. They are now preparing to break up. Should I strive to fight for my own happiness?Doctor's answer:
Based on the situation you've interpreted, there's a significant age gap between you two. It would be better to make an effort after they break up. Otherwise, he might blame you for causing him to lose his wife and child in the future. The only exception might be that the child could potentially be raised by you. Additionally, it's appropriate to consult your parents' opinions. Of course, you should have your own judgment. Once you make a choice, you must bravely take responsibility and fully take charge of your own life.