Patient's question:
Daughter is in junior high now, she is in the clear period and rebellion period. I feel like the child is living very oppressed and tired every day. She doesn't want to talk to me either. She had a boyfriend recently, but now I don't know what she's thinking every day. She used to be talkative and happy, but now she lies a lot. I don't know what to do.Doctor's answer:
First, parents must set an example by not lying; second, when they discover their child is lying, they should not scold them blindly but instead understand the reason and guide them correctly. Generally, children lie because they have done something wrong or because they fear punishment if they tell the truth. Therefore, whether the child has made a mistake or given unreasonable advice, parents should respond patiently and persuade them. Under no circumstances should parents resort to hitting or criticizing their child, as this will only create a greater generation gap. Instead, use examples and reasoning to teach the child.