Heidi's Sexuality Report (Love Edition)

Author: Xue'er Heidi
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Publish Date: 2002-09-01
Features: Never has an academic report been so tearful, bewildering, and exhilarating as "Heidi's Sexuality Report." It exposes the silent secrets of the world's sexuality, bringing the hidden world of men and women into the open before our eyes. — Yu Dehui, Associate Professor of Psychology
This book provides women with an alternative channel for broader thinking and offers insightful men valuable material to understand the societal and cultural dilemmas that trap women. — Cheng Jinfang, Senior Lecturer in Chinese at the University of Westminster, UK
The third report by Xue'er Heidi, "Love Volume," is clearly positioned. It is a continuation of the previous two reports on male and female sexuality. In this report, Xue'er Heidi listens to the heartfelt confessions of 4,500 women. Overall, the report reveals that when a certain set of gender-discriminatory culture is firmly established, it can create immense harm to vulnerable women. The "emotional contract" between partners can become distorted, with women expected to give and give, forcing them to endure continued exploitation because they have already given too much. Male partners, constrained, stereotypically giving emotional support, seemingly believing that this is what a "real man" should do. Deep down, they look down on their partners, their emotional cells stop growing, and they feel no remorse for hurting their partners. They are the infallible kings. For female partners, this is an suffocating emotional world, with no channels for communication. Women are forced to silently heal their wounds day after day.