Patient's question:
The girl is 3 weeks and 9 months old, and she has been in her third semester of kindergarten. She never voluntarily goes to kindergarten. Previously, she used to cry every day when going to kindergarten. After the teacher's suggestion, she started going to kindergarten obediently with extra rewards, and recently she hasn't cried anymore. However, at school, she doesn't participate in exercises, singing, or dancing. She stands still from beginning to end, watching others. She is the most unique in the class, completely motionless. This child is very shy and afraid of strangers. Is there a psychological problem? How should I stabilize her current state?Doctor's answer:
After reading the description, I first assumed that the child doesn't have any psychological issues. She is just 3 years old and starting at a kindergarten, which takes time. Every child has their own characteristics, and it proves that your baby is good at observing carefully and doesn't speak or move randomly in unfamiliar places. This situation is also related to her growth environment. It might be that you are too strict with her at home, or one of the parents is too dominant at home, which could lead to this behavior. Please don't worry. Once she gets used to the kindergarten environment, it will gradually improve.