Patient's question:
I am 44 years old and my boyfriend is 23. I am currently 7 months pregnant, but he doesn't want the child yet. He says we haven't gotten married yet and wants to have an abortion. My boyfriend claims he is only 23 and wants to have a child in two years when he is more prepared. My peers all have children, and I am getting older, making it harder to get pregnant in the future. We have argued many times over this.Doctor's answer:
According to the condition you described, you are 44 years old and 7 months pregnant. At this stage, it is a bit risky to have an abortion, and since you are preparing to live together as a couple, it is best to keep the child. Your age is no longer young, and it is uncertain whether you can get pregnant again. In two years, your age will be even older, and menopause may also be problematic. The chances of giving birth will be small. It is recommended that you both carefully consider this and communicate more.