Patient's question:
Doctor, how can I deal with the resentment in my heart? I've always been a child left to fend for myself since I was young, having endured many hardships I didn't want to face. My family members are all of the type who are gluttonous and lazy. Meanwhile, I am a very hardworking and diligent person. Since I was in elementary school, my parents and relatives have been telling me that I will enjoy the fruits of their labor in the future, yet they themselves are gluttonous and lazy. As I grew older, I grew increasingly disappointed in them. I feel they are both foolish, lazy, and selfish. I've always felt like a stranger at home since I was young. When I was 18 and needed a minor surgery, my parents were extremely unhappy and unwilling to spend a penny.Doctor's answer:
According to your description of the issue, you are filled with resentment, dissatisfied with your family, and have suffered many hardships since childhood. It is suggested that you let go of the resentment in your heart and do not punish yourself for others' mistakes. You must be brave, stand out, make a name for yourself, live with sunshine, be positive and upward-looking, motivate yourself, achieve great things, and in the midst of busyness, you will never think about things that make you unhappy. Also, watch more motivational movies and stories in your daily life to boost morale.