Can arguments scare children?

Patient's question:

My baby is 23 months old. The day before yesterday, I had an argument with my husband and couldn't suppress my anger, so I slapped myself several times. My daughter was scared, and now she cries at night and during her nap in the middle of the night. She never used to be like this before. What should I do to make sure my daughter is not so scared? How can I make her act like she used to?

Doctor's answer:

According to the materials you purchased, I have a general understanding, and I can really empathize with you. First, your daughter has already been frightened by your arguments, and psychological and emotional trauma has resurfaced. However, it's not impossible to resolve this. First, from now on, you and your husband should try your best to avoid arguments. Even if you argue, make sure the child doesn't see it, as this would be a blow to her. Additionally, spend more time with the child and give her more hugs and kisses. This will require time. This is the advice for the question "I have a 23-month-old baby, and the day before yesterday, I argued with my husband and felt powerless to control my anger." I hope it helps you. Wishing you good health!

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